I am a Chicken Soup author.  I have two stories in the book in the sibling revelry section called, "Something About Benny" and "Big Brother Time Off."  My son Bennett gives me ideas for stories daily.  Through our journey I have discoverd the importance of remembering the other children in the family while dealing with a child with autism.  We carve out special time with our other two children that doesn't include Bennett and it is okay.